Good Grief; GRIEVE!

Many people, wonder when a loved-one makes their transition from life in the body, to eternal life in the Light of Mother/Father/God, how long should they grieve. The answer is, however long it takes. Just don’t make it your life-long mission, your loved ones don’t want to see you like that forever.

Know; you are not grieving alone. Your guides and the angels are grieving right there along side of you. Feel them; breathe, pray, meditate, and listen.

How should you grieve is the same kind of answer; whatever is best for you. I do say this however, honor your body during the grieving process; don’t abuse it. Your body is a living being of it’s own. You are spirit having a physical experience, honor thy Father and your body; it’s a gift from Him.


I find that it’s always best to face things head-on, so don’t put it off. I prefer grieving in a creative manner; whether it’s through my art, or writing. Walks in nature, reconnecting with Mother Earth; Gaia, is also a wonderful way to reconnect and ground yourself.

If you have to run away; run away. It’s OK to hide from the world for awhile. Just remember though, those that truly love you want to grieve with you and they do grieve for you.

If you want to cry; cry with all your heart. If you’re a man, cry; there is nothing wrong with expressing your true love and loss for another soul. It’s one of the reasons why you incarnated here. You want to know how it feels to lose a loved-one. You can’t lose them in “heaven,” that’s impossible. So grieve; it’s OK.


Lord Father is the creator of all; he is love. He feels everything that you do and walks the grieving process with you; every step along the way.

Don’t ever feel like you are alone; you are not. I tell Father, “I couldn’t lose you if I tried.” He is love and WE were created by Him in love; the ultimate gift.

Guess what? You can’t lose your loved ones either. Every time you think about them, or say their name, they drop everything and come running. Talk out loud to them; they are there with you.

Ask for signs. Considering how my Dad kicked and screamed crossing into the light, he is pretty good at giving us signs. They say he was a “Big Scaredy Cat!” I AM very grateful that he made his transition into the light; I DO NOT enjoy retrieving a soul from Limbo!


Many Mediums/Psychics don’t always see their loved-ones right away after their transition from the physical to spirit.


biofieldGrief can unintentionally create energy blocks. Our higher self can also create these blocks, IF it is in our best interest. Get to know your higher self, especially your Holy Christ Self. See my article on this blog called, The True Understanding of Self.

Knowing this; grieve anyway. Trust me, when the time is right, your loved-one WILL come to you, you WILL meet them during “dream-time,” or, if you are like me, you WILL inter-dimensionally travel to them. How do I know this, it’s Father’s WILL. Be open to it and it WILL be given unto you.


If possible, don’t focus on lower-vibration feelings and certainly don’t use any lower-vibrational words.


PLEASE, don’t play the pity card. Your loved ones do not want you to live in their remembrances at a lower vibrational frequency. It will only make you feel worse by lowering your own vibrations. Poor me just won’t cut it. The object is to raise your vibrations, because they just took a major blow.

I know how hard it is; believe me. I have had MUCH loss. Let’s face it; it hurts! It feels like someone reached into your chest and ripped your heart out. Your stomach feels like it’s a ball of knots, and you might even be giving yourself a headache. Embrace the feeling, because you knew love, and received love.

Sadly, there are many people that have NEVER felt or received love and that is true sadness. It’s even sadder to know that they might have never been loved unconditionally; or loved another unconditionally. Just knowing this should make you feel better; for you are blessed indeed.

Don’t be afraid to love again either. It’s the only real thing in this illusion in which we reside.


Gratitude is the highest vibrational word in existence. Thank Father for the time that you had with your loved-one; here in-the-body. He will pour grace down upon you. It will wash over you as if you were standing in a waterfall.

Messages of AzraelCall upon Archangel Azrael, he is a wonderful comforter; not only for the loss of a loved-one, but prior to the loss of a loved one, or if you are the caregiver of a loved-one.

Azrael ALWAYS comes to me prior to the passing of a loved one. He knows it helps lesson the blow of the passing. He’s a great friend and I love him for loving me that much!

Remember that you too are making a transition of your own. Azrael is available 24/7, so call his “hotline,” and ASK for help!

I HIGHLY RECOMMEND that you read my article on this blog called, The Angel of Death. Azrael is special in his own right and you need to be prepared for his “grand entrance.” Also, read the book shown above; it will help you better understand death, dying, and living well; through gratitude.


So good grief; GRIEVE!

May Mother/Father/God shower you with love and light during this trying time. ❤

About I AM the incarnate Goddess Athena, Queen of the Heavens and New Earth, and THE Emmanuel's Wife

I AM 100%, the incarnate Goddess Athena, Goddess of Beauty (of the arts) and Fertility; but not in the sexual manner; but of the mind. I AM a master, inter-dimensional traveler and a master of unconditional LOVE. You are "spirit having a physical experience" with a job to do, and it is simple. Live a life of service to others; not self, and LOVE with all your heart. It is not how much you love; but how well you love, which should always be unconditionally. It is that simple! So when you want to choose what's right; pick the light. The only demons that exist are those within.

1 Response

  1. Hi Diane, I am so sorry to hear about your father’s passing, and wish I had told you so earlier. You’ve been in my thoughts and prayers, I’ve been holding you close in light so you know that in this world you are not alone either. I am one of those people who doesn’t fear crossing over (mine, that is) but is terrified of loss. I don’t know what to do with the idea that I came here to experience such loss, since I ideally wouldn’t want to experience it ever, and it’s such a devastating gnarly experience that it seems like something to absolutely avoid were it possible to do so on earth. It is also hard for me to wrap my head around god/source/the one/the gods grieving with us, as from the perspective of the one nothing has actually happened. Someone’s left their body and is just around somewhere else, and from that larger than life point of view, where is the loss in it? And of course from our point of view, loss is the reality, what we see and feel and know, and grieve. It’s one reason among many, many of them of why being human really intimidates me, so I am one of the ones who run in my own life. I just kind of forget it is a possibility in my personal experience with those closest to me until it hits me in the face, otherwise I’d be in constant panic. Weird, right? I mean, I do know I will be able to talk to them on the other side. I suppose I have a lot to understand. But I don’t want to run from being there for you. I’m here. If you need time alone that’s okay. If you want a friend to talk to, just write me. Hugs and much love, dear sister.

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